Surprise!!!

When I was discussing the things I was looking forward to in 2012 in my last post, I left out one thing. Just in case my friend, Stacy decided to get a wild hair up her butt and look at my blog! So, about a month ago, my dear friend Stacy's husband contacted me on Facebook to see if I would like to fly to Georgia and surprise Stacy. Who, by the way, I had not seen in 12 years! That's right, 12 years! I was, of course, all about it! Stacy was my very best friend in South Carolina. She came around at a time in my life when I just really needed a good friend. Steve and I had been broken up for several months (we had a tough road in our younger years, before we got it all figured out). My step-sister Heather Marie had left Beaufort a few months before and she was the one that got me through the break up and I gotta tell ya, we had one hell of a summer! We were 21 and I will leave it at that! The one person I thought was a friend, had started dating Steve. Yep, you heard that right! My friend, started dated my ex-boyfriend that I had been with for 5 years and had a baby with! Total violation of friend code! I tried to still be friends with her, but I was just really crushed. Even after her and Steve broke up, I just couldn't get over that betrayal. I guess I just wasn't over him like I thought I was! And I guess that is why we found our way back to each other. Anyway, enough of that yucky stuff.... I actually met Stacy through my bad friend. I had babysat Stacy's son a few times and she called one night to see if I wanted to go out for a little while. So, I did. We went downtown to a bar called Ping's and danced the night away. After that, we became instant friends! She became an instant part of the family. She was Aunt Stacy to Bryson and another daughter to my parents. We went out almost every Saturday night. We just had so much fun! She was there when Steve and I got back together and was the first person to know when I got pregnant with Jordan. She was there when my grandpa died and was there for me when my little brother was killed. It was hard to leave her when we moved in 1998. The last time I actually saw her, I was pregnant with Dusty in 1999. She still only had 1 boy at that time. It wasn't long after that when she met her husband. I knew when she told me about him, this guy was the one. Any other guy that even looked at her with love in her eyes and she was gone! She was young and just wasn't ready for that yet. But, this one was different. They got married and went on to have 4 more boys! That's right, 5 boys all together! We have always kept in touch and modern technology has only made that easier. Facebook rocks!

This is us on New Year's Eve 1997

Anyway, this is how it all went down. I flew down on Friday and her husband picked me up from the airport. And I am glad it happened when it did, because Thursday night, her facebook status was about something suspicious was going on and she was going to find out what it was. Too many mysterious phone calls between her husband and oldest son! I don't think they could have fooled her much longer! I was sitting in her dining room when she walked in. There was a lot of hugging and screaming and a few tears. I just wish I would have given my phone to one of her boys so we could have gotten it on video. So fun! We went straight to dinner after that. And ended up eating out all weekend! Her husband was wonderful and stayed home with the little ones all weekend so we could catch up. It was great reminiscing and catching up! I don' think we shut up the entire time! Stacy is one of those friends that no matter how much time has passed, you jump right in and it's like no time ever passed. Our lives have both changed so much. Let's face it, last time I saw her, she only had 1 boy! Her boys are adorable and they are very good and respectful boys. She runs a tight ship. Her home is beautiful. She has a great guy. But, with all of the change, SHE hasn't changed. She is still the same fun-loving, heart of gold friend friend that I left in 1998. And I still know that no matter what she will be there for me. I love ya, Stacy! I just know that another 12 years can't pass without seeing each other again!

Us now! 2012

Hello 2012!!!

It's hard to believe it's already 2012! It seems like we just rang in 2011! 2011 was a pretty decent year for me. Well, on a personal level. On a work level, not so much. We found out in February that we were going to have to move due to the conditions of our building. We ended up moving in March. Very hard for me to leave the other 2 agencies in the building! I miss them like crazy! Not to mention the extra 20 minutes of driving time each way everyday that came along with the move. We have settled in pretty well and I carpool with a co-worker most days, so that helps with the driving. But... then in November, we found out that our supervisor was going to retire. BOO!!! We understand why she was retiring, but that doesn't change the fact that we were going to miss her. She's been very good to us and a very good person to work for. So, another big change at work. We are adjusting. I just hope 2012 will not have so many changes at the workplace. I am very thankful for my job, just not a fan of change!

Now, as I said on a personal level, 2011 was pretty good to me. I started the year off on January 2nd going to a Colts game with my mom. That was when the Colts were winning, so that was a pretty good way to start the year! In February, my dad won the citizen of year award in our town. So, all of my brothers were home for that. Since there aren't many opportunities to all of us kids together, I sure enjoyed that and was super proud of my pops! In May, my youngest brother Allen got married, so that in itself was wonderful. But it once again gave us a chance to all to be together again. Twice in one year! The first weekend in June, my mom and I went to the Wine Festival in Indianapolis. Another fun time! We took our South Carolina vacation in July. I will just say it was wonderful, because I could go on and on about that! In August, I attended the Jimmy Buffett concert with my peeps from my old office. We had a blast! These chics are crazy and so much fun to be with! Not to mention, that was the first concert I had been to since I went to a Richard Marx concert in 1989. Is Richard Marx even still around??? In November, my brothers, Travis and Allen were able to come home for my birthday weekend. And Mom, Travis and I went to Indianapolis to a Colts game on my birthday and stayed in Indy for the night. Another wonderful time! Although, the outcome of the game wasn't quite what I would have liked, but we had so much fun! Oh and the hubs even got me a new Dallas Clark jersey to wear to the game. Thanks hunny! We had a great Christmas this year. Actually got to get together with some of my mom's side of the family the week before Christmas. Which hasn't happened in years! Plus, I got to see my cousin Fantacy and her daughter, Chloe, who I hadn't seen in almost 3 years. We always have such a good time together! I love this time of year and the time I get to spend with my family. Life just gets so busy, but during the holidays, we all get to spend time together and I love it! And I just think that was a great way to end the year! I sure hope 2012 is just as good to me as 2011! I know I already have 2 vacations planned. 1 in March during Spring Break we are going to my brother's in Maryland. And in July, we are headed back to South Carolina. It's hard to believe that my kids will also be turning 12, 15 and 18 this year! Wow! And 2012 also marks 20 years since I graduated high school! oh my!!! I also hope 2012 will be a little nicer to a few of my friends. 2011 was pretty rough on them and it's never fun seeing someone you care about going through bad things. So 2012 be nice! Hope everyone has a blessed year! Oh and one more thing??? The Colts!!! PLEASE let the 2012 season be better for them too!!!